Thursday, November 13, 2008
Moving to Facebook
We'll see if that helps me stay current...if not I'll come back
Andy
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Fantasy Christian
Fantasy football is a game in which participants (called "owners") are arranged into a league.
The person who creates the league is called the commissioner, and that person invites other owners into his/her league. Each team drafts or acquires a team of real-life players and then scores points based on those players' peformance on-the-field.
It's a fun way to compete with your friends to see who can predict who'll peform the best when it counts.
What's interesting is that each week a player is given a "projection," or a best guess of to how many points they'll score against their opponent. Some weeks the projection is right on and other weeks the player performs poorly.
The weekly projection got me thinking about my life (and other Christians) and I wonder what projection I'd be given.
Each week we are called to imitate Christ and do our best against our opponent.
I realize we can't do it on our own but our works are a measure of our committment to Christ.
The saddest reality for me is that my Fantasy Football league is just for fun but in real life there are no Fantasy Christians - this game counts.
Today's Walkaway: How are you playing the game? If I were to project how well you'd do next week in your walk with Christ would you score big or be a bust?
Thursday, October 9, 2008
True Worship
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Brooklyn's #10
Wow - 10 years.
We invited 10 of her friends to go rock climbing and had an amazing birthday party for her. Beth and I wanted to make her day special.
Fast forward through the day to bedtime as we are saying our good-night's, Brooklyn told us she had an amazing day.
To hear her talk and see her grin caused me to feel such joy. I find it such an honor to be a parent.
One of the highlights of life is simply to spend time with my children. I think that often times LOVE is spelled TIME.
Happy Birthday Brooklyn
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
your decisions cost you...
I always thought it'd be interesting to see what a dumb decision would financially cost. I mean if we could quantify the value of a mistake what would it be.
Well, I came across this article that answers the question. Super Bowl star Plaxico Burresswas suspended for one game by the New York Giants. He made a mistake (we all have, I'm not picking on him) and it cost him. The exact details - Burress will lose two paychecks under the suspension. He will not be with the team during the bye week and won't be allowed to practice with the team next week. His base salary under the new contract is $2 million. His suspension will cost him $235,294.
Say that outloud - $235,294! Maybe one more time - $235,294.
Even if you are making $2 million a year that's still a lot of cheddar.
Today's Walkaway: This football players mistake cost him a lot of money. We are able to see exactly what it cost. He'll pay the fine and live to play another down. But what about you and me?
When we make a mistake/sin, we can't just write a check and restore a relationship or say "I'm sorry" and repair a reputation.
Our decisions really do cost us...how much...I'm not sure...but remember that our decisions really do determine our destiny.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Holding Pattern
Have you ever been in an airplane and you're ready for takeoff but you're stuck in on the ground. Most likely, you're experiencing what is known in the airplane world as a 'holding pattern.'
Holding Pattern: Def. A state of waiting or delay;
I currently find myself in that situation. I'm ready for a change, I'm not sure when or where that change will occur and I feel like in stuck in pause.
As I prepare for takeoff I'm realizing that the preparation to fly is just as important as the flight itself.
My ability to "fly" will be determined by the disciplines I develop while on the ground.
Disciplines are tough to stay dedicated to.
We all want to - get in shape, eat healthy, make good choices, etc. But the want to and the will to are in direct conflict.
So I'm challenging myself to make the most of the holding pattern and learn what I need to while I'm circling the runway.
Today's Walkaway: Life is full of delays. We don't always get what we want when we want it. I've seen people lose their cool in their holding pattern and forfeit what could (should) have been theirs. My prayer (for me) is that we'll learn all we need to learn in this process of patience.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
No Power
With candles burning and a great attiude our family had a great experience of making the most of a difficult situation.
And estimated half million are out of power in the Dayton area.
During this experience it's been incredible to see God's favor.
Our neighbor sent her kids down and informed us she had breakfast ready for her family and invited us to join them. Bacon, Eggs, Pancakes on the grill! We had a great time of hanging out. Then my other neighbor let me borrow his lawnmower (my has an attitude) while I got my yard cleaned up.
We had to cancel our small groups and youth service for the week so I'm spending time at a local coffee shop that has free wi-fi.
Today's Walkaway: Psalms 118:24 This is the day that the Lord has made; I will rejoice IN IT and be glad.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Thursday, September 4, 2008
laugh
School & soccer have started, our busy life at church, and my kids 'new social life,' all add to a schedule that can easily become overwhelming.
Beth and I really try to make sure that we eat dinner (at the table) as a family as often as we can during the week.
Last night we laugh (a lot)! It felt great.
Spending 30 minutes at a dinner table might seem like such a small thing right now but I know as the years move on the memories and conversations we have as a family will have huge benefits.
Today's Walkaway: Be intentional. Whatever you do, whatever you say, wherever you are, have a goal of what you what to accomplish and work at it with all your ability. My goal last night wasn't to laugh a lot and have this great memory. The goal was to spend time as a family and the byproduct of that goal was the laughter and memory. I know I can't make those things happen but I can be very intentional about making time with my family happen.
What's an area in your life you need to be more intentional about?
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Two Goals
I have three children all in three different soccer leagues. It's going to be a fun season.
Well, I am helping coach Gabe's 8-9 year old league.
The other night he got hurt early in the game but shook it off and kept playing. I am so glad he did.
He played the best game of his life (OK - he's only been playing three years). But he scored TWO GOALS, had an assist and played some incredible defense. I was so proud as a dad (I have to admit I teared up a bit).
It was amazing experience for Gabe and I to share together and one that is now an incredible memory for us to have.
Today's Walkaway: Life Experiences (good & bad) give us a better understanding of who we are and what we are made of.
Reminding ourselves that we ARE created in the image of God shoots peace and confidence into our lives. We should be quick to remember that when we experience life.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Who are you?
He knows what to aim for.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
Firsts
They were so excited about school. They had there new school clothes, back packs and lunch boxes. As I listened to their little voices talk about how cool school was it was a great shot of encouragement to me. They told some cool stories and we just laughed at a few first day things they encountered.
It reminded me that life is often best lived through the eyes of children. Everything is so brand new to them and they have this contagious spirit that can recharge you (even when you're having a rough week).
So to Brooklyn and Gabe I say "thank you" for reminding me of the important things.
Today's Walk-Away: Take a minute or more and re-evaluate what makes you smile. And if it's been a while since you've smiled think about your days of the school playground when all that mattered was who could jump higher and run faster.
Monday, August 18, 2008
mowing your grass (AT NIGHT)
A few weeks ago I heard my neighbor mowing their grass in the dark. Now, I know it's summer and I don't mean it's late in the evening b/c the days are longer, kind of dark. I mean it is after 10:00 PM and I hear the lawn-mower fire up. One more detail - this lawn-mower isn't the cool John Deere kind that has a head light on it. It's just an ordinary, run of mill, push lawn-mower.
So I thought maybe it was just a fluke and my neighbor had a really busy week and this was the only time he could do it - UNTIL a few days ago. He was mowing his yard again in the dark.
What's the deal?
It would be one thing if the result of him mowing in the dark made his yard look better but in my humble opinion it doesn't.
How about you and your life. Are you mowing (living your life) in the dark?
Monday, August 11, 2008
fishing
Well last weekend was my ONE weekend a year. I caught a fish BUT what I really wanted to brag on today was my son's fish.
Check this out:
That is Gabriel's almost 20 inch large mouth bass. He was so proud it. He invested his time (fishing), didn't get frustrated, and fished in the right location and it paid off.
Sounds like really good LIFE advice.
Our investments and our attitudes have a lot to do with what we catch in life.
My walkaway: What you sow you eventually reap. I had a converstation with someone who is doing something the right way it's paying off for him. He's had some difficult seasons in life but I'm excited about where God is leading him. It's neat to see what happens when you invest and have the right attitude along the way.
Friday, August 8, 2008
autograph
We had got several autographs but the ONE he wanted was none other than the starting QB and 2006 Pro Bowl MVP, Carson Palmer. I had heard through a few different guys that day that's Palmer's autograph was a tough one to get.
So I shared that with Gabe and we agreed we'd try. Well at the end of the day after waiting in the almost 100 degree heat - I got it!
He was thrilled.
It was the perfect cap to an incredible day with my son.
On the way home Gabe said he had such a great day and said, "thank you daddy for taking me."
I almost cried!
It was such a moment to able to spend quality time with him and talk about life and watch how God shaping him into such an incredible young man of God.
Monday, July 28, 2008
Wal Mart
What is the price or value of a soul?
$215,000.
That’s the price that Wal-mart has put on each of their customers. I got this email today that talked about a documentary on CNBC about the inner workings of Wal-mart. It was a very interesting program. One of the main things that stood out to me is that Wal-mart has done extensive research into their business.
If, for example, I go into my local Wal-mart store and get bad service; can’t find what I need; have to wait in the checkout line too long; or anything else that really makes me upset, Wal-mart knows that they have a lot to lose.
In fact, they’ve calculated the value of what I’m worth to them. If I get mad at Wal-mart and never return, I have just cost the company (on average) $215,000. That’s how much sales they have figured they will lose from the average customer over their lifetime if they don’t come back...
Wal-mart puts a high value on me and every other person and family in my community.
Many churches, on the other hand, seemingly couldn’t care less about the people in their community. Sure, we give them lip service, but when it really comes down to reaching our target, many of us are too busy arguing about carpet color, worship styles, and how much to ‘give’ to missions in Africa, all the while missing the main point of reaching our own community for Christ.
Wal-mart provides diapers and socks and hemorrhoid cream for a profit.
The church offers eternal life and salvation for free.
Shouldn’t our communities know we value them at least as much as Wal-mart?
FOR DISCUSSION: Here’s today’s questions for you:
Does your church value people more than Wal-mart? --If so, what does that look like in your community? --
Who is better at reaching their audience in your community? Your church or Wal-mart?
Does your church even have a specific target audience?
Does your church have a specific plan to reach that audience? --If your church shut down today, would your community notice? And if they noticed, would they care? --
What is your church offering your community that no one else can or does?
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Relationship Building
Monday, July 14, 2008
Philadelphia
I'm in Philly! Blogging from the roof of a five story home in Philadelphia.
A group of 10 of us left this morning for a week to work with Highway Tabernacle A/G in downtown Philly. There is such excitement among our group as we are working with about 130 kids from the neighborhood. My students will be trained in how to lead and organize different projects as well as take part in a few work projects.Highway Tabernacle is such an incredible landmark. It was built in 1850 and is the 2nd oldest A/G church. Think about that...in was the 2nd A/G church started in America. It is so humbling to be walking around the church and just spending time with God.
I can only imagine the incredible services that have happened in this church over the past 150 years. I hope to have have a few this week!
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Feedback
Monday, July 7, 2008
Bad Dreams
It's during these moments that we really depend on God's direction and wisdom.
We wanted to be proactive and introduce a few spirtual practices she can do herself. I don't believe you are ever too young to learn about God. With that being said, we have begun to teach her Psalm 4:8 I will lie down and sleep in peace, for you alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety.
As well as setting up a CD player with Praise & Worship and praying WITH her before she goes to bed.
I want Emma to see her parents look to God for help in times of need instead of just trying to talk our ways out of a situation.
In life we often go to God as a last resort and wonder why things have gotten to out of control.
I know Emma may still have a bad dream here and there but she'll know that God is with her and her parents are trusting God for the quality and direction of her life.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Summer Camp
Off to a week a camp. I love summer camp. It's a great week to connect with other youth pastors as well as watch God do some pretty incredible things in the lives of students all across Ohio.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
8
My dad & I went purchased him this for birthday...
It's so incredible to watch him grow. He is a passionate young man with a heart for God and football! Sometimes I like to just watch him play or read or sleep. It's amazing to see him do or say things that I do or say. It's both honoring and humbling.
I want to be the best Father I can be and I realize that only happens when I'm connecting with my heavenly Father.
I love John 5:19 Jesus gave them this answer: "I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does.
Not only a great verse but a life lesson.
As Gabe watches me he'll follow my example.
Today's Walk-away: You are an example. Whether you want to admit it or not people look up to you. It may your positive attitude at work or the way you're always bragging on your wife or the way you handle your finances. Don't run from being an example. Embrace and use it to bring God glory!
Monday, June 9, 2008
Adrenaline
Monday, June 2, 2008
Junkless June - it's ON
It's ON baby. Junkless June started yesterday.
I'm really excited about this challenge. It's going to be tough but rewarding. A few of my friends are their friends are jumping in on junkless June.
Here's a quick rundown of Junk-less June.
The Goal:To break myself from things that I eat/drink that isn’t the best for me. They may not be awful, but if you think you can’t go without for 30 days – then maybe you need to. I am doing this to gain self-control and possibly shed a few pounds. The heart behind it is to not allow anything to have control over me. If I say “I can’t go without (blank)” then I need to just so it doesn’t have control over me. If you think you can but aren’t willing to try then you may want to pay attention to the truth – YOU CAN’T!!!
The rules: I have submitted 3 things that I think will be the hardest to go without for 30 days.
If I cheat I owe a $5.00 penalty. I think the penalty has to hurt. If it were only a quarter or dollar – it'd be too easy to cheat. The penalty has to be painful. There is a $20 “I am a loser without any self control, so I quit” fee.
In other words, if I quit I still owe all the penalty money AND a $20 fee.
The Rewards: I am sure it will benefit me physically and mentally and just being able to have the self-control is a huge battle I hope to win. (Galatians 5)
The winner: The person who wins (cheats the least amount of times) wins all the penalty money. If there is more than one person that “wins” – we will split the money.
If you want to jump into Junk-less June you need email Gary Fowler @ fowler163@yahoo.com
Good Luck!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
lil'l toes
Thursday, May 22, 2008
intentional
Monday, May 19, 2008
process
Unfortunately ONE Senior showed up who was not included in the presentation. Today we will meet to discuss the process and how to better include everyone.
Feedback is so important and being willing to try new things is imperative when it comes growth. So often we want to try to just assign blame to make ourself feel better but in reality it's all about making sure that the ONE doesn't get missed.
I realize that I (we) can only do what we can do but making sure that I've done all I can do is the goal.
Today's Walkaway: Good isn't good enough if better is possible. Sometimes I hate that statement but it works as such a great filter to life. Being a good dad isn't good enough if I can be a better dad. Being a good husband...being a good friend...you get the picture...
How are the processess in your life working...are they just good enough?
Saturday, May 17, 2008
daddy day
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Just a thought about...
Today's Walkaway: So often what you say reflects your thought process. You've heard it said, "Think before you speak." This saves me from looking dumb and God knows I need that as often as possible.
Today's Feedback: Send me some dumb statements...
Here's mine - (let me set the context) - it's Sunday Morning and the P&W leader says, "Everyone stand to your feet." Think about it...
Monday, May 12, 2008
Columbus, OH
This year is a BIG year as we are electing a new District Superintendent. I have been praying that God's will is done and our new superintendent will take Ohio to the next level. It's exciting to be a part of growth and I'm expecting our new leader to do that for us.
On the flip side it is equally as depressing when you're not growing. Whether it's my life, my church or my district remaining stagnant is draining.
Doug Clay (our current superintendent) has done an amazing job and his shoes will be hard to fill. From day one his mission was clear (that's a sign of a great leader): Resource Church Health. I know God has huge things in store for Him as well as Ohio.
We'll miss you Doug!
Today's Walk-Away: Vision is contagious. People will always follow a great vision. Vision draws, excites, connects and energizes people. If your life were to have a one-sentence vision, what would your vision say?
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Snooze
A lot of us are like that...we rarely like to wake up. There are so many factors to our 'just five more mintues.' It's raining, I went to bed late, it's been a long week, it's Sunday. So we snooze!
I think it's easy to snooze. It's almost effortless.
The painful admission is that a lot of times I can find myself 'snoozing in life.' Missing out on opportunties that God is providing all b/c I want to just snooze.
There's a saying, "You snooze - you lose."
I don't want to lose anything. Time with my wife. Memories with my kids. Experiences with God. They are all so valuable.
Today's Walk-Away: Ephesians 5:14 says, Wake Up... I want to live my life ready to experience all that God has and not snooze my way to losing what He has.
Monday, May 5, 2008
setting the bar low so you can succeed!
Thursday, May 1, 2008
encouragement
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
ouch!
Got me thinking (I don't do that often) about what I say and now that it hurts to talk I'm much more intentional about what I say. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise. Too often we don't think enough about what we are going to say and just blurt something out.
I guess my application is - learn to think before you speak. We've all heard that before and we all know it but I've been chewing food for a lot of years and still bit my tongue.
Monday, April 28, 2008
the circus is in town
Friday, April 25, 2008
popsicles & prayer
I feel helpless. She has a fever and just wants to lay on the couch, watch TV and rest and eat popsicles!
I wish I could do something or switch places with her. It's difficult as a dad to sit back and watch your child be sick.
So, I pray for her and hold her and pray some more. There's somethig about praying for your child and the incredible bond it develops. I'm sure the prayer works but I'll keep feeding her popsicles too!
Thursday, April 24, 2008
dream big
Monday, April 21, 2008
Sleeping Dogs
Ever once in a while something happens and you wonder why in the world you did "that" or said "it." You wish you could take "that" or "it" back but you can't. So you're left with a choice.
How do you make "it" better? Because let's be honest we've all done or said something that we know we should not have but the real test of wisdom is what do you do AFTER the sleeping dog is awake.
And how do you make "it" better in the long run?
I think the most important thing I've discovered is to learn how to pray about your next step.
From Moses to Nehemiah to Paul we see how when a circumstance has the potential to get ugly prayer is crucial.
When we pray, we get God's perspective on the situation and more importantly His desired outcome. ABW verse: We SHUT UP and let God work.
When we just react, we get our perspective on the situation and try to get our desired outcome, which is usually trying to prove how right I am and how wrong you are! ABW verse: We ignore God and make a the mess even worse.
So this week if you happen to do "that" or say "it" remember God can make "it" better or you can make it worse.
Monday, April 14, 2008
12 years!
And oh...to my faithful readers - I didn't forget the roses...
Thursday, April 3, 2008
plan A
Monday, March 24, 2008
The Move
Monday, March 17, 2008
TMI
Over 20 hours in a van. Now spending 20 hours in a van with the same group has the potential for a lot of things to happen. Fortunately, the 20 hours served as some really good bonding time.
On our trip we met someone who loves to talk. Who always seems to give TMI (too much information)
I find these people fascinating. As they are talking it's as if they are the only person alive and their stories are so amazing that Hollywood is wanting to use them for movies. TMI!
To all the TMI people I must say this: Keep it up! Your information sharing allows me to daydream and organize my thoughts and figure out what I'm going to wear for the next month. I appreciate it.
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Road Trip
The goal of the trip is to allow some students to experience college life. It's such an awesome time for them to see what the future holds. Do you remember when you were charting out the path for your life?
Sometimes it seems like so long ago.
I have found that the direction of our life is a daily choice to make. Today's choices will affect tomorrow's outcome. (Chew on that for a while)
I'm looking forward to viewing this trip through the wide eyes of a few 16 & 17 year olds and remember that my future too is charted out today.
Monday, March 10, 2008
Nose Hair
It was really quite a sight. The nose hair moved as she (oh sorry I didn't mention that the culprit was a she) talked and besides it being quite a sight it became really distracting.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
RYB for 60 hours!
Monday, March 3, 2008
Same State
I don't have the answer!
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Make it count
As Pastor Stan spoke I had a cool thought - it doesn't matter how old you are or who you are - what matters is who you know. He spoke on 'making your life count' and that happens when we get to know God's plan for our lives.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
basketball practice
Today I took Gabriel (my 7 year old) to a basketball skills practice at his school. When we got to the gym he took off...grabbed a ball and started shooting. I was so proud of how he just jumped in.
During the practice he was taught some basic drills: dribbling, passing, shooting, and defense.
Then came the game a 5 on 5 scrimmage. Gabriel was put on a team and given a jersey. One of the coolest things was whenever Gabriel would score or make a rebound or score he would look over to me to see if I was watching. Of course, I was giving him a handclap and the thumbs up and saying "good - job."
It was a cool father/son moment.
Monday, February 18, 2008
HERO
His favorite player - Carson Palmer of the Cincinnati Bengals. Gabriel really admires Carson Palmer b/c he's a great football player BUT (thanks Gary Fowler) Palmer isn't my son's hero.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
wow - the middle finger
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
evaluate
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
I had a little pep in my voice...
Friday, February 8, 2008
Great read!
When a young boy finds a mysterious object in the creek near his home, his parents launch an investigation that will eventually link the ancient object to such remarkable figures as George Washington Carver, Oskar Shindler, Joan of Arc, and Alfred Vanderbilt. Separate pieces of the artifact--with different but similar inscriptions--shape the lives of those who possess the object.
With each new discovery come new questions: What is the connection between these objects? Is there is another piece? And, if so, how might this final piece complete the object and its message? Could it, indeed, change the very world with its power and wisdom?
The books ending reveals not only the origin and fulfillment of this amazing artifact, but also the guiding principles behind this story that can be applied directly to readers' lives. (Bio provided by Amazon.com)
Monday, January 28, 2008
Emma's 1st day of preschool
don't be stupid - (OK not smart)
Saturday, January 26, 2008
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Facebook is so yesterday...???
Here is the entire U.S. Top 10 list of fastest-rising search terms in 2007:
1. iPhone
2. Webkinz
3. TMZ
4. Transformers
5. YouTube
6. Club Penguin
7. MySpace
8. Heroes
9. Facebook
10. Anna Nicole Smith
Thanks to DC Curry for info (gccwired.com)
My Life Week Two
January 22nd, 2008 - decision made vs. decision felt…
Some decisions are made and felt immediately - other decisions are made and the consequence isn't felt (experienced) until months or years later.
Weight Lifting/Eating Right/Reading your bible/Prayer - one is not going to help...it's a great start but not going to make you stronger...healthier...or make better decisions.
WHY? Why do choose NOT to make smart decisions…
b/c we like to see how close to the edge (spiritual) edge…we can get before we go to far…
Graph #1 Wise Choices - Trusting Oursleves
Closing - Stop & Stare - One Republic
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Congratulations!
Andy's Life Goals
Friday, January 18, 2008
Going to the Troy Christian Basketball game tonight. I'm looking forward to hanging out with some of the guys from U-Turn. Life (ministry) really is all about friendships and friendships are formed by spending time. Too often we lose opportunities to get to know people by not asking the right questions when we hang out. So tonight I'm praying that I'll get to ask some great questions and get to know some pretty cool guys.
Today's Life Application: Show me your friends and I'll show you your future. I believe with all my heart that your friends today will determine your direction tomorrow. So where are you heading...look at your friends.
Monday, January 14, 2008
Brett Farve
connect
Thursday, January 10, 2008
My Life Week ONE Talk notes
Our decisions determine our destiny.
Matthew 4:4 (NKJV): “But He answered and said, ‘It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.’”
Matthew 4:7 (NKJV): “Jesus said to him, ‘It is written again, ‘You shall not tempt the LORD your God.’”
Matthew 4:10 (NKJV): “Then Jesus said to him, ‘Away with you, Satan! For it is written, ‘You shall worship the LORD your God, and Him only you shall serve.’”
Big Point: We’ve got to ‘learn how to discern’
Philippians 1:10 ‘My prayer….is that you may be able to discern what is best…’
Video – Calling
Response: A good look at YOU in 2008
Look at YOU!
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Willow Creek - Reveal
Willow has done us all a favor by being transparent in their learnings about their own ministry while also challenging all of us to consider whether or not we're really encouraging people to experience spiritual growth. (Tony Morgan)
Today's Walk - Away: How about you? Would you be willing to allow God to reveal where you are spiritually?
I think if all of us be open to hearing from God we would see our walk with God have much more IMPACT!